Ever wonder… ?

March 20th, 2008 by galadriel

  • if you are willing to turn your life upside down for someone, would you appreciate them less and blame them more at a later stage in life?
  • if you ever stop loving/caring for someone, even after they aren’t really yours anymore?
  • if waiting for people to have epiphanies of realization is better than taking their lives in your hands and setting things straight for them?
  • if time erodes relationships?
  • if being impulsive and living in the moment and making things happen is better than calculating and contemplating and waiting for things to happen to you?
  • if being with someone can change you so much that their absence in your life is noticeable to all and sundry?
  • if your past has the ability to haunt you forever?

9 Responses to “Ever wonder… ?”

  1. rayshma Says:
    March 20th, 2008 at 3:53 pm

    at times, i do… and here’s my 10 paise
    - yes.
    - no. it’s not contractual…
    - dunno. i don’t have d patience for realization to dawn, tho…
    - depends on d relationship.
    - i think it is.
    - don’t know, can’t say… never wondered.
    - i have selective memory, so, no.

  2. SEV Says:
    March 20th, 2008 at 7:58 pm

    Dammit, I was going to do a reply like the one above..

  3. Sailesh Says:
    March 20th, 2008 at 8:39 pm

    I knew you had the potential, now you’ve shown it! All you have to do is come up with some more questions, think about the answers and write a 300 page book. Link them together using a fictional story, so it can sell as both fiction and non-fiction. True, there will be some people who will hold the opinion that you are bullshitting, but you dont care about them anyway. The majority will like it, and you will become a best selling author overnight. And get rich. Then you can pay me royalty for the idea.

  4. Sailesh Says:
    March 20th, 2008 at 8:42 pm

    Forgot to mention this, but you shouldn’t think too deeply about the answers, otherwise the ideas might become inaccessible to the readers.

  5. rayshma Says:
    March 20th, 2008 at 8:50 pm

    SEV: don’t be mad at me, plz… ^_^

  6. SEV Says:
    March 21st, 2008 at 11:53 am

    No, I’m not mad. I now wish that I had given an answer like Sailesh’s. :P

  7. rayshma Says:
    March 21st, 2008 at 12:47 pm

    hmm… throwing caution to the winds, i see… :P

  8. rayshma Says:
    March 24th, 2008 at 7:22 pm

    aww geez.. now, don’t sit & sulk and stop blogging! :P
    me still love ur blog…

  9. Prashanth Says:
    March 25th, 2008 at 11:34 am

    As long as you took the decision to turn your life upside down out of your own free will, you will not double guess yourself later. External pressure in your decisions invites regret.

    I think a small piece of that love remains forever lodged in your heart. Someday the realization will come, that this isn’t such a bad thing after all.

    Give people their time and their space. How would you feel if someone came and painted your wall red just because she thought the colour suits your living room? Okay, bad metaphor, but you get the general idea.

    Time erodes relationships… I abstain on that one.

    Be as impulsive or calculating as is your own nature. Just be yourself.

    Of course the change will be noticeable. Don’t worry about it.

    Some things from the past will end up haunting you forever, but you will learn to live with it.

    Is this where you tell me all those questions were rhetorical? Hard luck, friend. I talk too much. Can’t be helped.

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